Now I've always felt this way, and as far back as I can remember whenever the conversation of baby mamas came up or whether to be a baby mama, or etc. once I stated my opinion, I usually always had one woman that would say to me "Oh well you can get divorced," and my feelings about that were always, yeah that's true, but the difference is he HAS to pay child support, he HAS to see the kid (and even though he may not, consider this, the man you marry probably isn't going to drop out on his kid, that is if you marry an actual man and not one of these little boys that run around, pretending to be a man), oh and you are an Ex-wife, not a baby mama, which means that you weren't just some chick he ran up raw in with promises of being with you forever. You were a woman that he actually felt he could be with forever and proved that.
I don't have anything against baby mamas, truthfully I think
they are incredibly strong, because I don't know how I would feel getting pregnant
by a man and he just up and leaves and then I'm pregnant by myself and raising
my child by myself, or worse, he stays through the pregnancy and then one day
just decides he's good and just walks off.
I guess my biggest issue regarding the baby mama thing is
that people seem so fine with it. Like whatever happened to falling in love,
getting married, enjoying married life for a bit and then having a baby. I
don't even think people realize what the children go through being products of
unwed parents. I am a product of unwed parents and let me tell you, getting any
type of paperwork, like my birth certificate for instance, was hell and it was
simple because my parents weren't married.
What
do you think?
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